I was in charge of the activity this week for Young Women. We were welcoming two new girls into the group so I wanted to plan some kind of get-to-know-you game. I found a couple ideas online and decided to combine them.
First, I took a bunch of tongue depressors and wrote two words, one on each end, which the girls would have to choose between. Some examples were "Chocolate" or "Vanilla", "Cats" or "Dogs", and "Facebook" or "Instagram". I also took some yarn and wound it into a ball. The container is just a No. 10 can wrapped in washi tape.
I tied the end of the yarn to my wrist and picked a stick. I can't remember the exact stick I picked, but lets say it was "Fame" or "Money". I chose "Money".
The next step was to ask who agreed with me. Everyone who agreed raised their hands. I then threw the yarn to someone with a raised hand. They put their had down, wrapped the yarn around themselves and threw it to someone else with a raised hand. This continued until no raised hands were left. At that point, the person with the yarn chose another stick and the game continued.
Pretty soon, the yarn had woven quite a web illustrating that we are all connected in some way.
I was pretty nervous going into the game. I figured everyone would love it or it would be a huge flop. Surprisingly everyone had a blast and really enjoyed themselves. It was great getting to know everyone a little better and it was a perfect introduction for the new girls to the group.
P.S. You may want some scissors on hand for the end!
I love this idea! Thank you for sharing. I would love to see a list of all your stick ideas. We have had fun coming up with them.
ReplyDeleteThis is great! Thank you. How long was your yarn?
ReplyDeleteLove this! Can you share your list of stick ideas? And yes, how long was your yarn?
ReplyDeleteThanks for the idea, we used this yesterday at my son's 16th birthday party!! All the kids seem to love it!!
ReplyDeleteCookies or Cake
ReplyDeleteSummer or Winter
Boots or Tennis Shoes
Big City or Small Town
Friends or Family
Chocolate or Vanilla
Cats or Dogs
Fame or Money
Books or Movies
Roses or Daisies
Call or Text
Mornings or Nights
Art or Music
Pink or Purple
Dance or Soccer
Mission or Marriage
Elsa or Anna
Sun or Moon
Snow or Sand
Soda or Lemonade
Hamburgers or Hot Dogs
Apples or Oranges
Driving or Flying
Jungle or Desert
Camping or Hotels
Horse or Dog
Dishes or Laundry
Pearls or Diamonds
Skirts or Pants
Christmas or Thanksgiving
Saturday or Sunday
Puzzles or Games
Minecraft or Terraria
Piano or Guitar
Hair bow or Pony Tail
Green or Blue
Car or iPhone
Vacation or Presents
Carrots or Sugar Snap Peas
Water or Milk
Spaghetti or Pizza
Homework or Chores
Food Network or Cartoons
Swimming or Hiking
Swimming Pool or Ocean
Owl or Wolf
Arial or Sleeping Beauty
Princess or Movie Star
Library or Museum
Swings or Slide
Band or Choir
Softball or Basketball
Hearts or Stars
Harry Potter or Percy Jackson
Candy Bar or Fruit Snacks
Brownies or Pie
Math or Science
Hawaii or Paris
Chick-Fil-A or Panera
Turtle or Fish
Purse or Backpack
Big Family or Small One
New York or Los Angeles
Alabama or Auburn
Pancakes or Cereal
Teacher or Nurse
Save or Spend
Pens or Pencils
Clean Room or Messy
Bath or Shower
Want Stratight Hair or Curly
Colored Socks or White
Meat & Cheese or PB&J
Grape or Strawberry
Brothers or Sisters
Oldest Middle Youngest
Mountains or Flat Lands
Home Lunch or School
Jacket or Hoodie
Scarves or Necklaces
Move Around or Settle Down
Adventurous or Cautious
Shy or Outgoing
Talkative or Quiet
Watch or Bracelet
Zippers or Buttons
Volleyball or Basketball
Nickname or Full Name
Ice w/ Drinks or No Ice
Cooking or Sewing
Waitress or Bagger
Dentist or Doctor
Thank you and this list is awesome!!
DeleteMaking my jar now! Thanks for the list and great idea. We just got 8 new beehives in the past two weeks so we needed this!
DeleteThanks so much for this! Using it tonight!
DeleteThank you so much for sharing! Perfect for our new beehives!
DeleteThank you so much for sharing!!!
DeleteLove this idea! As an introvert myself, I usually hate "getting to know you" games, and so I'm extra cautious when planning them for groups. This one is fun but low-key!
ReplyDeleteSeriously the cutest!! Thank you so much!! I can't wait to do this with my activity day girls!
ReplyDeleteDear Jenny,
ReplyDeleteMy name is Lisaa and I work for Korea Arts & Culture Education Service(KACES). We publish nonprofit weekly web magazine [arte365] covering worldwide projects, ideas and cases on arts & culture education.
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AWESOME IDEA! You rock honey
ReplyDeleteI'd like to use this for an activity! Such a great idea! But it would help greatly if i knew what kind and how much yarn I need. How long was your yarn and what kind did you use?
ReplyDeleteI love this idea and plan on using it!
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DeleteAwesome idea, I'm using it for an activity days game. We just got a lot of new girls, and I think this will be fun even for the younger girls. Thank you :)
ReplyDeleteFanbloidytastic. Im happy to be inspired 💞
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! I am so glad you shared the list as well as more detail on how to play the game. I am doing it with ALL of our Activity Days!
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